I recently got excited about my upcoming financial situation. After letting some lingering debt hang around for too long, I could see the end in sight. I was counting down the few short months that I needed to get it all cleaned up. Until…. an unexpected bill of $3K shows up AND the car suddenly has transmission issues. I have to admit that it took me out for a day or so. I went from excitement to a low feeling. It is part of the roller coaster I wrote about a few days ago.
I have a few options for dealing with the situation:
- Continue to stay angry and solve nothing.
- Use this as an opportunity to notice what lesson can be learned.
- Use this as the fuel to change my circumstances for the future.
- Practice my patience and stretch my growth.
I will be doing all of these except #1. Staying angry just isn’t worth it. All of the other options put me in a position to be my ideal self. That is where I want to reside in life.